Age of Love

I liked the way Google displayed its logo on 14th February (Valentine's day) because it portrayed a very old couple as opposed to the conventional pictures of teen aged couples on cards, posters and advertisements. This little google symbol conveyed, in my opinion, what the celebration of V-day is supposed to mean.

I guess as I get older, I realize that it is not about the roses, chocolates or cards. It should not be about celebrating togetherness, it should be about celebrating the person who you want to be together with. These ideas might seem to be the same at first glance, but upon inspection, they are two entirely different things. People often complain that "love dies" after a while and those starry-eyed days are short lived. This disappointment arises in the first place because we tend to take the "feel good" things like dinners and gifts as being love. In reality, the measure of love should rather be how good you feel without these "feel good" things. I guess one can stay in love only if he/she loves the other person for what he/she is and not how they can make you feel. The way they make you feel will change according to circumstances... one might not have a good day at office and that might reflect in other things and so on.... but a person does not change much in a lifetime from the point of view of personality.

They are what they are ..see if you can love them for that. I guess couples that are still together after growing old together, actually love each other for what they are and that is why they could stay put through ups and downs. Its only after all those years that we can truly judge if we have reason enough to celebrate Valentine's day.



When thou sigh'st, thou sigh'st not wind,
But sigh'st my soul away ;
When thou weep'st, unkindly kind,
My life's blood doth decay.
It cannot be
That thou lovest me as thou say'st........

-- Sweetest Love, I do not Go by John Donne (1573-1631)

The Floral Essence

Some things in the world can act like a panacea, but they are usually rare. Yet, God gave us one which is abundant and probably the best gift of nature...flowers. They are everywhere, so much a part of our daily lives that we often do not realize how often we see them around us.

They bring hope and cheer up sick patients in hospital beds. They make an angry person extend forgiveness. A part of every celebration, they are perfect presents for birthdays and weddings. They show love and respect in farewells. They are a tribute to the dear departed. They are a mark of honor when presented to distinguished people.They adorn the beauty queens world over, when they hold bouquets as they are crowned.They are held with pride by victorious athletes in the Olympics as they bow to accept their medals and sing their national anthems.

They decorate our gardens, homes and offices....their images are found on our desktops, walls, curtains, sheets...almost anything that you can think of can be decorated with floral patterns. They inspire poetry, art and photography. They are vibrant with color and spread fragrance. We search for their essence in our favorite cosmetics, candles and sprays.They appear in our daily lives in truly countless ways.

Think of a day when you did not encounter flowers...while walking in a neighborhood, in the landscape of your school or office, or at least their image or fragrance in any of the stationary or personal items that you use... It would be really hard to think of even a single day when flowers did not make your day a better one.

For oft, when on my couch I lie

In vacant or in pensive mood,

They flash upon that inward eye

Which is the bliss of solitude;

And then my heart with pleasure fills,
And dances with the daffodils.

"Daffodils" (1804) By William Wordsworth